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Getting a child to behave correctly in a social setting can at times be a difficult task. This article offers parents and carers 10 tips for improving a child's social skills and behaviour.
What are then 10 tips?
1) Give the child as much praise and reward as you can muster. Reinforcing their good behaviour is essential and encourages the child. Do not overdo it, giving them toys all the time but keep it balanced.
2) Have a set of rules that are premeditated. Don't be making up rules spontaneously. Stick firmly to the set of rules and back them up by taking firm action against any anti-social behaviour.
3) Follow a routine, making plenty of time for play. Playtime should not be confined to the indoors. Take the child outside to play as often as possible.
4) Create boundaries so the child knows your expectations. Have limits regarding the amount of TV the child is allowed to view. Do not allow the child to manipulate you by whinging and whining.
5) If the child is aggressive or violent discipline the immediately. Send them to a designated spot to spend time alone for a while.
6) Allow a short period of time before disciplining them to give the child an opportunity to correct their behaviour. Keep them informed about what they will be doing next. Do not rush them from one activity to another.
7) Try and help your child understand things by giving plenty of explanations. Give reassurances too, which will help them overcome their fears and understand their incorrect behaviour.
8) Do not give them too many toys at once or let them watch too much TV. Showing some restraint will have a good effect on the child.
9) Give the child independence by encouraging them to do things by themselves, such as helping you find things on a shopping list.
10) Spend quality time winding down with the child. Have fun playing with them and be interested in their thoughts and feelings.
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