Children and self-esteem

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Self-esteem is the value that we ourselves, what we understand. It is knowing that we are lovable, capable and that we are unique. Good self esteem means a healthy vision of themselves, with a quiet sense of self-esteem, with a positive attitude and positive outlook on life, feeling happy with themselves most of the time, set realistic goals and feel proud when your goals have been achieved. Our self-esteem is primarily shaped by our parents, and will continueaffects the way in which to develop relations with other family members, friends, teachers, coaches and other adults. As parents we have the greatest influence in shaping our children a sense of self, we are the first and most important teacher. To help our children build their self-esteem, we must develop and maintain our sense of self. Some steps that help our children build self-esteem are:

1) the love and acceptance. Show your children thatloved and accepted for who they are. Children must know they are adorable, although sometimes act badly. Give love, not tied to conditions and to spend time together. Praise them often for a good job, and say "I love you" every day.

2) protection and security. Providing a safe physical environment and setting clear rules and boundaries will provide your child with a sense of security and safe to take the next step: To try new things and learnabout themselves. When children feel safe, it is less likely that the fear of failure.

3) Composition. Children should know that are important to feel comfortable and confident, and open to communication. Help children to build relationships of value and support the family and the community, the pride of their heritage and family history, and participate in family events. If children feel that they are an important person within a family, have a goodSense of belonging.

4) compliance. Children will develop respect for themselves and others when they find out that, to hear what they think and want is important. If I take it, or call the humiliating name, your children will feel unworthy. Criticism or punishment that is too difficult, will ensure that countries in developing confidence in themselves. By accepting your children have the right feelings, can help them learn to respect the feelings of others.

5) confidence. EnterTheir approval and support of children, often made and congratulate them for good work. Children who have faith and trust in themselves and their skills are more likely to lead a happy and productive lives. Teach your children to learn from their mistakes, proud of its achievements and to work to have a goal. These are just some of the steps needed to create a child to build self-esteem. The most precious thing we can do to help children grow up healthy and happy buildingtheir self-esteem - self-image. Children who are happy with themselves is probably less behavior problems, fewer confrontations with the law, and obtain a better perspective on life and their ability to succeed in life, and its objectives.